Advice

– have a good support system. Confide in people you trust, and tell them anything that doesn’t make you feel right

– keep record of your finances and record why you received or sent money

– stand up for yourself , it will be uncomfortable but don’t let anyone walk over you

– know your worth. Don’t let people tell you who you are

– stick to your word. It’s harder to plead your case if you can’t stick to it

– when dealing with a sociopath and narcissist don’t (ever) believe anything they say, they are trying to get information

– knowledge is power. But sometimes acting like you don’t know anything is better.

– be aware of your surrounding

– don’t give up more information than you need to